.But what Astrid doesn't realize however is actually a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses 2 boys-- can easily confirm: The simple fact that your partnership along with your parents changes and grows as you both get older, and also ideally for the better. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they're little ones [and] it's a great deal job yet wonderful," O'Hara claims. "Later on, you really skip that, given that after that you can't get all of them to accomplish everything you prefer all of them to accomplish, given that they start creating their own minds, their personal opinions." As well as ultimately, you wind up in the spot O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s as well as 30s, locates herself now, able to pick up from her kids. "They are actually just such great younger men," she mentions. "I am actually not their friend, however I like having discussions with them and also understanding just how they consider life.".